Belief Equals Possibility

As I walked my dogs tonight I thought about the value of money. Now, don’t get me wrong, I believe money is good. It has the power to do great things in this world in helping people, good causes, and many many wonderful results. So I’m definitely a money making proponent.

My gripe is when making a decision is based on making money rather than “Doing the right thing”. I’m probably talking about this out of frustration and disappointment more than anything, but it’s a story that needs to be told.

I really believe in doing the right thing over making money when there is a conflict. And it angers me to see the “wrong” thing being done instead. I don’t believe there is any excuse in doing anything other than what’s right. There’s always an excuse for doing the wrong thing when it is done, but the truth is there is a better solution that will benefit all the so called excuses that far surpasses loss of making a change, for doing the right thing.
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Earl Nightingale said it best when he said “A leader is a person who can help and lead others. It’s the conscientious mother who wants her children to grow up knowing the rules of success and happiness. It’s the father who shows by example that any job worth doing is worth doing well. It’s the student who studies to learn, not just get a grade. Who has a mind of his or her own and sets the pace for his or her fellow students. It’s the farmer whose farm sets an example in his area. And the small business man or women whose business continues to grow and prosper with the passing years. It’s the employee who has the good sense to realize that one gets most out of any job by giving loyalty and dedication to the firm who pays his or her wages.”

It’s interesting how in many areas of our life we talk about being a leader or the concept of leadership. Lots of times it has to do with business or getting a new job. I often ask, “What is a leader?” or “What does leadership mean to you?” to friends or acquaintances.

Mainly because I don’t believe most people have a good grasp of what leadership is or what being a great leader entails. You see, it’s not being in a position of leadership like a President of the United States or of a major corporation that automatically promotes a person to the status of a leader.

Being a Leader Takes Work

No, it’s much more than that. Instead it’s more about the kind of person you become or are inside that many times takes years to develop. It’s working on you to become the best you, you can be. Not wishing for things to be easier, but instead wishing for you to become better and stronger at all aspects of your life.

I remember once when outside elements and events would affect my personal attitude in an almost automatic way. Blaming others or circumstances for my dis-satisfaction instead of searching within myself.
Today that doesn’t happen, I’m pretty much in control of my life. And you know what, I’m much happier now and don’t blame others for the bad things that may occur. In fact it seems like I don’t have as many challenges as I used to, but I’m sure the number and severity of today’s challenges haven’t really changed much. It’s just my approach to challenges and circumstances that has changed in a way which makes life much easier.

I once heard, it’s not what happens to you that is important, but instead how you react to what happens to you. And keep this in mind, 90 percent of the things we worry about never happen, 5 percent we can’t change and the 5 percent we can change is the portion of our worries that we can work on, right? Notice the percentages in your own life and you’ll find they are correct.

I believe that having challenges, difficulty, and frustrations is just part of life. You’ll only escape such events once you die and nobody wants that. So what do we have to do? We have to learn how to best handle them once they occur, because they will. And the better we are at being prepared for them when they arrive the better results we will have.

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Human nature is to focus on how to make oneself happy and successful. Don’t let this innate reaction be the doom of the true success you seek.

One phrase I always come back to is that said by Zig Zigglar and of which has stuck with me for a long time. It is, “Help enough other people get what it is that they want and you’ll get what you want”.

Think if everyone followed this philosophy how much better our world would be. In fact, if we were to realize this kind of world, we would live in a world that knows only peace. It brings great feelings to just think about it.

Open Up A Whole New World Of Happiness By Giving

The help you provide this person will bring them enormous benefit, but will bring you even greater benefits in one way or another. Don’t over commit yourself in any area to make it happen because even little things will benefit you and them.

As you make this a habit in your life you will find new and better ways to serve your common man. There are millions of ways to help people so there’s no excuse not to. Here’s a short list of … [continue reading…]

As I turn to a new Chapter in my life, I discover that there really isn’t anything that you can’t achieve if you believe. The truth is you may never be able to turn plants into gold, but how often do we place far more realistic goals into categories of uncertainty or stack them on piles of dead dreams?

I use two websites to help you to become the best you that you can be called “Believe Yourself To Success dot com” and “Belief Equals Possibility dot com”. Both of which have significant meaning in everyone’s life. Beyond the help I want to provide you to obtain your dreams, I want to highlight goal achieving and reaching success individuals here in order to inspire and show you that others are able to hit their dreams and you can to. My last desire in making my websites successful to you is in providing a focus to the meaning of both website names.

Which Path Will Your Life's Energy Flow Through?

The new chapter I have opened up in my life is that of having a new job that I really enjoy. I have worked hard over the past 5 months and become certified in 2 significant IT Professional certifications (DCUCI and VCP4, which are Cisco Systems Unified Computing solution and VMware’s vShpere version 4 platform) along with taking on other tasks made available to me. Now for a lot of you these certifications may sound very foreign and/or insignificant, and that’s alright.

The point I want to make is that I didn’t have to acquire them. I could have done other things or ignored the required preparation and effort, but I chose to take on the challenge instead. I’ve decided to push myself more than ever and to achieve what some people may think is impossible. You can achieve whatever it is you want if you will program yourself for success, never give up, and be persistent.

You see most people don’t give their all at doing anything. Just think if they did what they could achieve? We have so much more capacity to do, have, and become everything and anything we want to become if we will only believe in ourselves. It may be hard to believe in yourself and/or it may be hard to complete the effort that it takes to reach your goal or dream, but so what?

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I found this inspiring and moving video about a guy who wants to live a life that is extraordinary and not the norm. I encourage you to find your path and go for it. What could you do in 100 days if you focused yourself upon it?

Enjoy,

Kevin (Mister Self Help)

I found this video very inspiring, encouraging, and motivating. I believe you will find the same in it. So go ahead and check it out. Your life is too important to just live a mediocre one.

When you inspire yourself, it’s like spraying perfume. Others close by get a few droplets on themselves too. I hope this video inspires, encourages, and motivates you to live an extraordinary life. Help others to do the same.

Have a great week,

Kevin (Mister SelfHelp)

Believe Yourself To Success Because Belief Equals Possibility

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Remember the days when you were growing up and think about the great times you had. I know we usually think about the opposite, but we all have fond memories of our youth no matter how few they may seem. Some of these great moments might be brought back by the listening of a great old song you used to hear at that time of your life. This is very common for me as I’ve always loved music. There are other triggers to bringing back great times to our consciousness too like scrap books or year books, but you don’t have to have them to remember the days of your past.

Remember The Days Of Your Youth

What if you could do those same things that you loved to do as a child right now? Would you still want to do them? Maybe you should try and see. Some of the things I liked to do when I was a child was play pinball, dance, watch music videos/listen to music, explore the outdoors, roller skate, ride my bike, bowling, going to the movie theater, play on the side of a hill with my cars making roads and on and on. We all filled our youth doing “something’s” that were nice and fun.

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Give me your best …
Have you ever given your best?
What’s worth doing your best?
What’s not?

Remember, you can have, do, and become anything you want if you’ll just believe you can because belief leads to action. Thinking won’t get it done, only getting it done will get it done. But if you can’t get it done, then thinking the right thoughts will eventually get you to getting it done.

Giving your best doesn’t cost anything more than a commitment to do so.

Here’s a great motivational tool when you feel you need a boost. Enjoy my friends …

Kevin (Mister SelfHelp)

Believe Yourself To Success Because Belief Equals Possibility
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Angels are all around us. I know because recently I’ve been going through a very difficult time in my life. Quite honestly, I still am. I’ve been feeling like an ant pushing dirt up a hill that never ends. Have you ever felt that way?

Who's Angel Might You Be Today?

I feel this way because the arrows and bombs of difficulty, struggle, and challenging situations keeps coming fast and furiously, large and small, in what appears to be a sequence of events that can’t be turned off.

One thing that amazes me amid all this yucky muck of stuff, also called overwhelming surprises is that there is always someone in the wings of life to help. It may not even seem that way when you are going through the situation, but looking back it is clear that this was the case.

Don’t get me wrong, it isn’t easy to deal with the tough issues or times and they didn’t resolve themselves overnight or without (sometimes) tremendous effort. But if we keep our heads right, we find that we were blessed with blessings and God’s favor all along the way.

I’ve been praying all the time and reaching out to everyone and anyone to do my best to survive these trying times. And one by one each issue has resolved itself and in most cases in an optimal way. We’re still not through it all even today. But I believe that as far as we have come, we will see it through to the other side with amazing results.

God has come to our side and aided us in seeing things through that we couldn’t have done on our own. He’s dropped angels in our path called life, disguised as people. God bless these people I call God’s little angels, doing their work to help us. I’m ready and willing to reciprocate the blessing if the opportunity ever presents itself.
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